Friday, October 31, 2008

Williams' Jack-O'-Lantern's

Our front porch hasn't looked this good for years!

Mark has always had an artistic flair and as it turns out so does Tiffani ... and they both have a slight competitive side! Let the carving begin!

We haven't carved pumpkins for years but since the "kids" are staying with us we decided it would be fun. Everyone used a pattern but Tim. He went the freehand route.

Tiffani's great Halloween scene complete with tree, moon and owl - Eileen's so-called flower - Tim's scary Jack-o'-lantern - and Mark's incredible Mario. Mark hadn't seen my post about the year he wore the Mario costume. Amazing he chose to carve Mario! We had a great time and I think there are four good looking Jack-o'-lanterns to decorate our porch.

Trick or Treat!!!

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Happy Halloween!!

"Michelangelo"
Christopher and Mark loved the "TMNT" - the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, "Hero's in a Halfshell!" They were a team of four turtle mutants who were trained by their sensei, Master Splinter, in the art of Ninjutsu. From their home in the sewers of Manhattan, they battled criminals, evil, and alien invaders. Chris really wanted to be Michelangelo. I made a lot of their Halloween costumes over the years but this one was way over my skill level. But knowing how much Chris wanted it, I bought the pattern and fabric and went for it. I was up half the night and was really struggling with the darn shell. Since I could not call anyone in the middle of the night to help me, I actually got down on my knees to ask for help. It worked and I pulled it off. Chris loved it, the kids at school thought it was cool - and more importantly the Mom's were very impressed!
Ready for the Halloween party at school
Barrett Elementary October 1990
"Mario"
Mark and Chris also loved the video game Mario Brothers. It was developed by Nintendo in 1985 and was an instant hit. Tim and I often played it with them! Mario, an Italian plumber and his brother Luigi, try to save Princess Peach by conquering eight worlds in the Mushroom Kingdom. They must make their way to the castle in each world and defeat one of Bowser's evil minions. Who thinks up this stuff? - (the Japanese)!! Inside the eighth castle, the Mario Brothers will find Princess Peach. As of 2008, Super Mario Brothers is the best game of all time, selling over 40 million copies. Apparently Mark and Chris were not the only ones who liked it! Doesn't Mark look so cute as Mario? I love the hat. He had his work boots on and of course, a hammer. It is so fun remembering the fun times we have had with our boys!

Sunday, October 26, 2008

Quote for the week


"To make democracy work, we must be a nation of participants, not simply observers. One who does not vote has no right to complain." - Louis L'Amour

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Happy Birthday to my sister!

"Sisters"
Roseanne and me after my Mom decided to give us a perm!! The expression on my face says it all.
In 1997, my sister Roseanne, my niece Holley and I participated in a reenactment of the Mormon Trail wagon train and handcart company. It was to commemorate the 150th anniversary of the arrival of the Mormon Pioneers in the Salt Lake Valley from Nauvoo, Illinois in 1847. We were ask to register to participate and many people walked from Nauvoo to Salt Lake. We joined the wagon train for one day and what a day it was. We walked 30 miles across the plains of Wyoming. It was Dad's birthday and with "faith in every footstep" we honored him. The blouse and apron I wore were made from one of his shirts. It was a memorable experience for all of us.
We were also there to welcome the participants into the Salt Lake Valley. Some had been walking for 3 months and over 1,000 miles. It was a triumphal entry and a thrilling experience.

An estimated 51,000 people gathered at This is the Place Monument to welcome the wagon train. "It good to look to the past to gain appreciation for the present and perspective for the future." - President Hinckley
This is the Place Monument - July 1997
Thanks to my sister Roseanne for introducing me to the gospel and for your example of faith and devotion to your family and those around you. I hope you have a great year! Happy Birthday!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Angel Friends

Susan Savage, Sharon Lambert, Karen Sell and me

I had the privilege of serving in a Relief Society presidency with these great women back in 1988. It was a turning point in my life. I learned things from them that helped me become a better person. The confidence and patience they showed me when I was learning has helped me with every calling I have had since. They are my "Sunday Best" friends and Monday through Saturday too! They live righteous lives everyday of the week. They don't gossip and I have never heard them say anything unkind about another. Susan and Sharon's husbands have passed away. I admire the courage and faith they have shown. They fill their days with serving others and spending time with their families. Karen is so talented and is a devoted wife and mother. She is also always serving and giving to others.

We celebrated Karen's birthday today at the new Paradise Bakery in American Fork - yummy! We have been going to lunch together for about 20 years. Jeffrey R. Holland reminded us that we have heavenly help, of angels dispatched in time of need. But some of them we walk with and talk with - here, now, every day. Some of them reside in our own neighborhoods. Some of them gave birth to us... we see the love of God manifested in the kindness and devotion of people so good and so pure that angelic is the only word that comes to mind." I am grateful for my forever, angel friends!

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Grandma Federer

My cousins Cindy, Grandma Federer and me!
Unfortunately something was spilled on this picture but I had to include it.

"Flower Garden" quilt Grandma made me for my high school graduation. She cut every piece without the fancy rotary cutters and mats we have now. She sewed every piece together by hand.
Even though she has passed away, I want to wish my
Grandma Federer a Happy Birthday!

Edna May Parker Federer was born October 9, 1898 in Freeman, Missouri (proper pronunciation "Mazzoura!"). She would be 110 years old. She had 9 children, one died as an infant and her son Marion was killed in World War II. She lived nearby so my brother Les and I would often walk to her house. She always made us feel loved. She was the best cook ever. My favorite meal was fried chicken, mashed potatoes, rolls and strawberry rhubarb pie. Les and I would help her cook or do the chores. We fed the chickens, cleaned the chicken coop, gathered eggs, picked chokecherries for jam and worked in the garden. She worked hard all her life and could do anything. I learned about service and charity from her. She made quilts for all of us and was always crocheting, knitting or sewing something. She never kept anything for herself ... well just one quilt on her bed! I cherish the quilt she made me. My Mom made many of my dresses when I was younger. She gave the fabric scraps to Grandma and she made a beautiful "Flower Garden" quilt from them. She loved pretty dishes and I'm sure that's where my love of dishes came from. She had great faith and believed that the "pure in heart" would see God. She told me that often and I know from watching her example she had that kind of heart.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Quote for the week

I heard this quote and have become slightly obsessed by it! I learned how this simple little quote came to be and my hope is that it will impact the rest of my day and then the day after that and again after that ...

"We never touch someone so lightly that we do not leave a trace"

"I was on a train on a rainy day. The train was slowing down to pull into a station. For some reason, I became intent on watching the raindrops on the window. Two separate drops, pushed by the wind, merged into one for a moment and then divided again - each carrying with it a part of the other. Simply by that momentary touching, neither was what it had been before. And as each one went on to touch other raindrops, it shared not only itself, but what it had gleaned from the other. I saw this metaphor many years ago and it is one of my most vivid memories. I realized then that we NEVER touch people so lightly that we do not leave a trace." - Peggy Millin

It is not always the big bold headline making acts that can and do change the world but the little thoughtless actions that leave tiny marks on each of us as we go through the day in this crazy, stressful and sometimes overwhelming world. So if I stop myself just once a day from making one of those careless thoughtless "it doesn't really matter" acts, what would the impact be? If I choose to not be rude and be more civil - what would the impact be? Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin said: "Kindness is the essence of greatness..."

I took the rude person quiz and so can you! It is something to think about.
Are You a Rude Person Quiz
  1. Are you chronically late?

  2. Have you ever typed an e-mail while talking on the phone?

  3. Have you ever interrupted a face-to-face conversation to take a non-urgent phone call?

  4. Have you gone through a supermarket 10-item express lane with more than 10 items?

  5. While among friends or co-workers, have you yawned without covering your mouth?

  6. Have you ever texted or talked on a cell phone in a movie theater (or at church)?

  7. Have you ever let your dog relieve himself on your neighbor's lawn?

  8. Have you ever cut in front of someone in line?

  9. Have you ever stolen some one's parking spot?

  10. Have you ever let your child kick the back of the seat in front of him and not apologized to his victim?

  11. Have you ever not RSVP'd to an event by the date requested?

  12. Have you ever gossiped?

Monday, October 13, 2008

Quote for the week

"A pint can't hold a quart - if it holds a pint it is doing
all that can be expected of it." - Margaret Deland

Sunday, October 12, 2008

First Snow!!

First snow to wash the autumn dust
First white to clean the gold
First beauty, only moments to last
First change to fresh the old
First light to kiss the gloomy day
First soft to mild the lawn
First clean to wash the dusty way
First cool to touch the dawn

Admittedly, I am excited to see this! I smiled when I woke up this morning and saw the snow on the trees and grass. It's beautiful! But, it's all melting fast. I love living where there are 4 seasons - and sometimes I even miss Wyoming winters. I remember a winter where we were snowed in for 3 weeks. Without electricity! The wind had blown down all the power lines. The snow plows made an effort to plow the roads but the wind would blow the snow back as fast as they could plow it. We used the fireplace for heat and cooking. My Dad and brothers would hand pump water from the well into big milk cans. It was fun ... for about a week.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

I love quotes ... so here's my quote for the week ...


"In the end, the number of prayers we say may contribute to our happiness, but the number of prayers we answer may be of even greater importance. Let us open our eyes and see the heavy hearts, notice the loneliness and despair; let us feel the silent prayers of others around us, and let us be instruments in the hands of the Lord to answer those prayers." President Dieter F. Utchdorf, October 2008

Saturday, October 4, 2008

"Everyone can create. You don't need money, position, or influence in order to create something of substance or beauty..."

Tim made this beautiful cradle when Robyn was expecting her first baby. I knew she was looking for one and she couldn't find one she liked. I asked Tim if he would make her a cradle and this was his creation. He made of cherry, maple and ash and put love and care into every detail. Tucker was the first to sleep in it then Asher, Abe, Elijah, Kashli, Jude, Gabi, Minie, and Greta.

I always make a new blanket and bumper pads for the new babies. I know we have had several babies due too close together for everyone to use it. I can't wait for my own grandbabies to use it!

President Uchtdorf's talk at the Relief Society general meeting last week really resonated with Tim and me. We both have found satisfaction in creating things with our hands. Not because they are perfect or even the best but because of the way it makes us feel to share “gifts from the heart.” This is what President Utchdorf had to say about creating:

“The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul. No matter our talents, education, backgrounds, or abilities, we each have an inherent wish to create something that did not exist before. Everyone can create. You don’t need money, position, or influence in order to create something of substance or beauty. Creation brings deep satisfaction and fulfillment. We develop ourselves and others when we take unorganized matter into our hands and mold it into something of beauty— You might say, “I’m not the creative type. When I sing, I’m always half a tone above or below the note. I cannot draw a line without a ruler. And the only practical use for my homemade bread is as a paperweight or as a doorstop.” If you are a mother, you participate with God in His work of creation—not only by providing physical bodies for your children but also by teaching and nurturing them. If you are not a mother now, the creative talents you develop will prepare you for that day, in this life or the next. You may think you don’t have talents, but that is a false assumption, for we all have talents and gifts, every one of us. The bounds of creativity extend far beyond the limits of a canvas or a sheet of paper and do not require a brush, a pen, or the keys of a piano. Creation means bringing into existence something that did not exist before—colorful gardens, harmonious homes, family memories, flowing laughter. What you create doesn’t have to be perfect. Don’t let fear of failure discourage you. Don’t let the voice of critics paralyze you—whether that voice comes from the outside or the inside.If you still feel incapable of creating, start small. Try to see how many smiles you can create, write a letter of appreciation, learn a new skill, identify a space and beautify it.”
(President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, General Relief Society Meeting 2008)

More Creations!

Tim made these tables for his den. They are inlaid with ebony.

Last May George's father passed away suddenly. We all loved and respected "Big George" and I made this quilt and afghan in his memory. It was a gift for George and Marie. Big George grew up in Hawaii and loved the islands so much. The fabric I chose reflects that. Chris had a close friendship with Big George and they talked about life, philosophy and religion when they worked out together at the gym.

Chris gave a heartfelt talk at his funeral and I used a quote he read for the quilt label.

"What we face may look insurmountable. But I learned something from all those years of training and competing. I learned something from all those sets and reps when I didn't think I could lift another ounce of weight. What I learned is that we are always stronger than we know."  
- Arnold Schwarzenegger

Friday, October 3, 2008

28 Years and Counting

It was my sister Roseanne who first introduced me to the gospel. It meant everything to me that she and Dad attended my baptism.
My baptism day - October 4, 1980
Today, October 4, I CELEBRATE 28 years of being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints! I was baptized in Cheyenne, Wyoming by Richard Brown. My baptism was the beginning of a new life for me. I will never forget the emotion inside my soul, to be clean, to start fresh as a child of God - it was such a great feeling! I have had many good examples in my life, my parents and grandparents and I thank them for taking me to church and giving a wonderful foundation to build on. The missionaries called me a "Golden Contact" and it didn't take long to make the decision to be baptized. I know personally of the Savior's redeeming love. I am grateful to be part of an eternal family.

I will always have a special bond with Richard and Judy Brown. When I was investigating the church they invited to their home many times and lovingly taught me the gospel. It was because of them that I wanted to know more! It was an easy decision to have Richard baptize me! I still talk to them often and always visit them when I go to Cheyenne.

Conference Time

President Eyring - President Monson - President Uchtdorf

"It’s Conference time, it’s Conference time – the prophets
tell us what to do, at Conference time and all year through!”

I sang this song to Chris and Mark when they were younger to get them excited about watching general conference. (I still sing it to them!) I love this time of year and can’t wait for tomorrow! We have watched conference together as a family for 26 years (with the exception of when Chris and Mark were on their missions.) I have always been grateful they never resisted when we asked them to listen to conference. Now we have sweet Tiffani join us in this tradition. We also have a big breakfast Sunday morning - pancakes, bacon, sausage, etc! Thousands of Latter-day Saints will gather Saturday and Sunday at the Conference Center in downtown Salt Lake City to attend general conference. Hundreds of thousands more throughout Utah and surrounding states will watch proceedings live on television. Millions more around the world will watch on the Internet or by satellite broadcast in more than 6,000 Church buildings. For my family who may not know … General conferences of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are gatherings of leaders and members of the Church and anyone else wishing to hear messages of faith in Jesus Christ and His gospel. Scriptural doctrines are taught, hymns are sung and prayers are given, all in effort to urge people to live more Christian lives.

After 133 years of general conference in the Tabernacle, the construction of the much larger Conference Center, which seats 21,000 in its main auditorium, was completed in 2000 to better accommodate conference crowds. To enable people to view the meetings outside of the Conference Center and Temple Square, the Church broadcasts each session to over 6,000 satellite connections around the world in addition to live Internet streaming. With the diversity of Latter-day Saints comes a diversity of languages. Hundreds of interpreters help to translate all of the sermons and prayers into 94 languages, including American Sign Language and closed captioning. Whether in the Tabernacle, in their own living rooms, or from reading the messages later, members feel the spirit of faith and testimony that moves outward to touch their lives from this moment of instruction, this time of strengthening called general conference.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

It's spires reach up to heaven, it's doors call out to me ... come enter in and find the joy that lasts eternally

There are now 128 temples around the world. The most recent temple to be dedicated is in Twin Falls, Idaho. There are 12 additional temples that have been announced or are under construction -- Cebu Philippines, Draper Utah, Gila Valley Arizona, Gilbert Arizona, Kyiv Ukraine, Manaus Brazil, Oquirrh Mountain Utah, Phoenix Arizona, Quetzaltenango Guatemala, San Salvador El Salvador, Tegucigalpa Honduras and Vancouver British Columbia. Whew!! -- and imagine we will soon have 13 temples in Utah -- Bountiful, Jordan River, Logan, Manti, Monticello, Mount Timpanogos, Ogden, Provo, Salt Lake, St. George, Vernal and coming soon... Draper and Oquirrh Mountain. (P.S. - Five new temples were announced today (October 4) by President Monson, during the opening session of conference. This will bring the worldwide total to 145. The additional temples will be built in the Greater Kansas City Area; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania; Calgary Alberta, Canada; Còrdoba, Argentina; and Rome, Italy. Not since April of 2000 have so many temples been announced at one time. Very exciting news!!)


This is what I see every Tuesday! September 28 marked my 3 years anniversary of serving at the Mt. Timpanogos Temple. I love my service in the temple. It brings me joy and satisfaction. I feel a sense of accomplishment in doing something of eternal value. I serve with women who are angels and men who honor their priesthood. The temple presidency are amazing examples of devoted service and I have learned so much from them. We will have a new temple presidency on November 4. It has been said that the story of temple work is a story of love -- the love of God for man, and of men for God and for each other. I feel blessed to have come to earth at this time, when the beautiful saving ordinances of the temple have been restored to the earth and to have the privilege of participating in them.


My favorite temple quotes:

"Every foundation stone that is laid for a Temple, and every Temple completed according to the order the Lord has revealed for his holy Priesthood, lessens the power of Satan on the earth, and increases the power of God and Godliness, moves the heavens in mighty power in our behalf..."
- President George Q. Cannon

"Sometimes our minds are so beset with problems, and there are so many things clamoring for attention at once that we just cannot think clearly and see clearly. At the temple the dust of distraction seems to settle out, the fog and the haze seems to lift, and can "see" things that we were not able to see before and find a way through our troubles that we had not previously known."
- President Boyd K. Packer