Friday, May 31, 2019

Coop...

There is a grave we see every year at East Lawn that tugs at our hearts. I thought I knew the details of Cooper's passing but I had him mixed up with another Kofford family. Cash took some some pictures of Cooper's grave. It's always decorated with bright colored pinwheels and pictures of Coop. There are some of his toys on the grave marker and bubble wands. Grahm picked up one of the cars and I blew a few bubbles. I thought that is exactly what his family would want us to do.



We also notice several other graves with a pinwheel and a note that said, "We love you, the Kofford's." I want to do something like that next year, so thoughtful. Even though the circumstances of his death were so tragic and profoundly sad, we can celebrate the life a sweet, happy little boy who is deeply loved. One sentences from his obituary brought tears to my eyes, "We are at peace including an absolute blameless recollection of the circumstances surrounding Cooper's last day on this earth." I know his family felt peace and strength because of our Savior, Jesus Christ and his infinite Atonement. I also know they had an outpouring of love and support from friends and family. I know without a doubt they will see their beautiful son again one day.


July 2009

OREM — A 4-year-old boy who died Friday after being run over in his driveway was always happy and cheerful, friends say.

"He was the sweetest little boy," said Becky Phillips, a close family friend and neighbor. "He was always full of life, just always happy, always had a smile on his face."

Cooper Kofford had been swimming in his family's backyard pool Friday with 10 to 15 other children who were family members and friends, said Orem Police Capt. Steve Clark.

At some point, Cooper decided to go out front to the driveway and lie on a blanket to soak up the sun, which the children often did.

Cooper's aunt came out to leave at about 2 p.m. and looked around, very aware of the fact that there were children playing in the area, Clark said. However, when she got into her full-size SUV and backed out, Clark said she failed to notice Cooper lying on the side of the driveway.

As soon as the aunt ran over the boy, she realized something was wrong and stopped, got out of the vehicle and immediately family members immediately called 911.

Initially, officers requested a medical helicopter, but when they arrived on scene, they determined it was an obvious fatality and canceled the helicopter, Clark said.

"It appears to be an unfortunate accident," Clark said. "It's a sad set of circumstances."

Cooper Hamblin Kofford (a.k.a. "Coop") Cooper was born October 4, 2004 and returned to heavenly surroundings on July 31, 2009. Quinn Macdonald Kofford and Jana Lynn Worsley Kofford (Orem, Utah. Married 23 years) are blessed to have been Cooper's earthly dad and mom. Cooper is the fifth of six children. He is one of four boys and two girls. Cooper loved his sisters and brothers. He loved climbing into bed and snuggling with his sister, Hunter (13), and loved "playing house" with Kennedy (9). His oldest brother, Carson (12) taught Cooper about baseball. Duncan (7) loved playing legos and swimming with Coop. Lincoln (2) was Coops wrestling mate, car seat buddy, and "partner-in-crime." As his earthly family we are amazed at the depth of our love and respect for Cooper and his impact on our family. We will miss him very much. We have been and will continue to be enveloped by overwhelming feelings of love and gratitude. We are at peace including an absolute blameless recollection of the circumstances surrounding Cooper's last day on this earth. As a family, we have felt the love and support of our extended families, neighbors, friends and the community-at-large; and express our thanks. We have been blessed with clarity of mind and peace of heart and soul which stems from our faith in and knowledge of our Heavenly Father's plan for all mankind, and of Cooper's progression in that plan . . . and its eternal significance for our little family. We are certainly biased toward our son and brother and cannot say enough positive about him or his influence on everyone who knew him or came in contact with him. He was always on the go. At home, he was most comfortable outside . . . usually barefoot and in shorts (or a swimsuit) sometimes even in the winter. He had soft, sun-bleached-blond hair that framed his perfect face and little body and accentuated his amazing deep blue eyes. His two huge dimples (one in each cheek), tan complexion, perfect annunciation of every word and syllable, and his sweet voice (combined with his unique twang) are part of what made him Cooper. He loved to giggle and to make others giggle with him. He loved swimming, riding his bike (training wheels triumphantly removed in May), going to Navajo Lake and Kanab, Utah, and eating otter pops like they were going out of style. He loved taking his brothers for self-made adventures into "Randy's field" or to Betty Jo's "bumpy road." He loved chewing gum which usually only further accentuated his perfect little teeth, ear to ear smile and deep Hamblin dimples. He loved to snow ski, going "faster" in the water tube at Lake Powell, and sleeping wherever and whenever he chose. He loved all of his friends, cousins, aunts and uncles and would interact and immediately engage anyone. He also loved both sets of grandparents (Cree-L and Ila Jean Kofford of Bountiful, Utah, and Steven and Cheryl Worsley of Provo, Utah) and the horses, kisses, Christmas treats and unconditional love they showered on him. We will miss such things as hearing him yell-back "I Love You" as he ran off to play. We will also miss kissing his soft puckered lips, his refusal to eat anything healthy, and his causing havoc in church. We will miss holding his hands (even though the rest of him wouldn't hold still), riding bikes to go get snow cone treats, and just playing and laughing together. If you knew Cooper, you experienced a bit of heaven on earth. As parents and as his family, we are grateful to have been blessed with Cooper. Because of our convictions toward Jesus Christ, we absolutely know with no doubt whatsoever--that we will be reunited with him someday. Funeral services will be held Thursday, August 6, 2009 at 12:00 noon in the Hillcrest 8th Ward Chapel, 1035 South 800 East, Orem. There will be a visitation from 9:30 to 11:30 a.m. prior to the services at the ward chapel. Interment will immediately follow at East Lawn Memorial Hills Cemetery in Provo. In lieu of flowers, we have asked that donations be made to the LDS General Missionary Fund or Primary Children's Hospital.

Thursday, May 30, 2019

ThrowBack Thursday ~ Aunt Bernice...

Happy Birthday Aunt Bernice, 
I miss you.

Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Tuesday, May 28, 2019

Remembering...

I am grateful for many things this Memorial Day. I love it when we go with our family to the cemetery. I'm thankful Chris was back from the Philippines so he could be with us. It's been wonderful to have him home. I'm grateful for the chance to remember loved ones and friends who have passed.

Chris and I also have a tradition to visit the graves of some of his friends that have passed... Big George, Dean Byrd, and his high school friend Will, that was killed in Iraq. We also saw so many other graves of people we know in the Highland Cemetery. We also go to the American Fork Cemetery to visit Luke and Le Grand's grave. There are also many pioneer graves there. It's a beautiful cemetery, so many graves with flowers on them. Chris brought some gorgeous yellow Lily's to place on the graves. He is so thoughtful, he also left some for me!





 Mark's people!

It was a lovely day on Sunday and we were happy to have a break from all the rain. 

We met Mark and his family at East Lawn in Provo on Monday. Tim's parents, his brother Jeff, and other family members are buried there. We also have a resting place there!

How sweet are these pictures of Chris and Grahm!

Cash took most of the pictures, he's my best photographer!







We can be together forever...

Monday, May 27, 2019

Do the very best we can each day...

Our Father in Heaven simply asks us to "do the very best we can each day." If you can do that, "you will come to realize that your Heavenly Father knows you and that He loves you. And when you know that — really know it — your life will have real purpose and meaning, and you will be filled with joy and peace."


April 2019 | The True, Pure, and Simple Gospel of Jesus Christ
President M. Russell Ballard

Mosiah 4:27
“And see that all these things are done in wisdom and order; for it is not requisite that a man should run faster than he has strength. And again, it is expedient that he should be diligent, that thereby he might win the prize; therefore, all things must be done in order.”

Saturday, May 25, 2019

Adorable.Silly.Wonderful.Cute

Grey is adorable!

My favorite Colby expression. He's so cute.

Silly Cash and Colby!


Wonderful boys!

Friday, May 24, 2019

Derek at the Eccles...


Tim gave me a ticket to see the Derek Hough Live dance show for Christmas. 
I really love dancing and Derek is one of the best. 


This show was Derek's first-ever solo tour. It was incredible! Derek has an amazing ability to dance so many styles from ballroom to tap, salsa, hip-hop, and everything in between. He also can sing, play the guitar, and the drums. 
I teared up several times during the show. 

I especially enjoyed watching Derek dance to the song Singing in the Rain. For his closing number he danced to music from The Greatest Showman
I loved it!

Derek is from Salt Lake and started dancing at age 11. Performing for the hometown crowd was fun for him. What a night! 


I had a really good seat!

Thursday, May 23, 2019

ThrowBack Thursday ~ So cute!

Grey Maxwell ~ May 2017

Last night when I was helping Grey buckle up, he looked at me and said, "Love you forever Grandma." Oh Grey, I will love you forever too.