Monday, November 30, 2020

Fear not...


"We each face moments in our lives when the great joy that the angel promised can seem elusive and distant.
All of us are subject to the frailties and hardships of life—illness, failure, problems, disappointment, and, in the end, death. While many people are blessed to live in physical safety, others today do not. Many face great difficulty meeting the demands of life and the physical and emotional toll it can bring. And yet, despite life’s hardships, the message of the Lord to each of us is the same today as it was to the shepherds keeping
watch two thousand years ago: “Fear not.” 
Elder L. Whitney Clayton | Fear Not
December 2015

Sunday, November 29, 2020

Breaking news...

 Three year old Grahm gives himself a haircut! 

Before



After 





Grahm is getting so big, and with long 
or short hair, he's one handsome lad!


Friday, November 27, 2020

Turkey and trimmings 2020...

I'm always thankful for family gatherings. We enjoyed a delicious Thanksgiving dinner and few games after.


The Grands made these very nice placements! 








Thursday, November 26, 2020

ThrowBack Thursday ~ Great things...

 Thanksgiving 2014 - I'm so thankful for my family.



Cash said, "Thanks to Grandma for all this, it was a Perfect Turkey Day." He gave thanks for all our "great things" and said "help us to do great things." Needless to say it brought tears to my eyes.

Grey's first Thanksgiving

Wednesday, November 25, 2020

A thank you for President Nelson...

Elder Holland posted this today on Facebook. It touch my heart and so I can read again, I'm posting it on my blog. I have deep admiration and love for Elder Holland.

Like many of you, I was moved by President Russell M. Nelson’s recent invitation to use social media to share my gratitude this week. In fact, I feel compelled to share my deep and eternal gratitude for President Russell M. Nelson himself. A personal story may illustrate why I feel this way.

Back in 1981 when I was serving as the president of Brigham Young University, I was in the middle of negotiating the building of BYU-Jerusalem. I took my wife, Pat, and our three children with me on one of my many trips to Jerusalem. Russell Nelson also happened to be on the trip. My youngest son, David, had just turned eight. While we were in Israel, I baptized him in the River Jordan.

Now, I still didn’t know Russell Nelson very well at that point. But he made that experience more than memorable for our whole family. He became the chief photographer of David’s baptism. All of the photos we have of that event were taken by Russell Nelson.

He mailed us copies afterwards and then sent copies to my mother. Now, who would think of that? There was Alice Holland, a widow who missed this opportunity with her family. Who would stop to think that she needed pictures of that event? Russell Nelson thought of it and sent her a whole packet of photos.

I want to use this opportunity to thank President Nelson for the gift he has been on my life. I suspect that you—like me—will never forget his influence and love as our beloved prophet. #GiveThanks


Monday, November 23, 2020

Thankful for my family...

I want to give thanks for my family. They are everything to me and each of them have brought me love and joy beyond measure. Family is about growing and loving. It's about teamwork and helping each other. It's about laughing and having fun together. It's about a few tears and supporting each other through the good times, and hard times. It's about making mistakes and forgiving each other. It's about building an unbreakable bond that will last for eternity.

Thanksgiving 2017
"Nothing's more important than family."
Coco | 2017 

Sunday, November 22, 2020

Not by chance, but from heaven...

 

The Story behind My Global Prayer of Gratitude
President Russell M. Nelson
11/20/2020 

An Unexpected Awakening

Have you ever had the experience of waking up in the middle of the night with a distinct thought or impression? Since beginning my ministry as the President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I’ve had my share of unexpected awakenings. Many of these have proven to be special and sacred moments from God. I want to share one such experience related to the special video message that was released today, November 20, 2020.

A few weeks ago, I woke in the middle of the night with the thought that I should offer a prayer of gratitude to God for all of His children around the globe. Thoughts flooded my mind of all of the things for which we should be grateful and how expressing that gratitude could become a healing spirit in our lives. As the inspiration came, specific details, including when and how I should share this message, came to my mind and heart. The video message shared today was not one that came by chance; it is one that came from heaven.

One of the Greatest Gifts of God

Since my service as President of the Church in 2018, one of the things the Spirit has repeatedly impressed upon my mind is how willing the Lord is to reveal His mind and will. The marvelous privilege of receiving revelation is one of the greatest gifts of God to His children—available to every one of us.

No matter who you are, you can pray to your Heavenly Father for guidance and direction in your life. If you learn to hear the Lord through His promptings, you may receive divine guidance in matters large and small.

I am grateful for the awakenings I have received in my life that have helped me to know that the heavens really are open today. Our Savior, Jesus Christ, is the greatest example of both heeding the will of His Father and giving thanks in all things.

In Every Thing Give Thanks

As I said in my video message, I have concluded that counting our blessings is far better than recounting our problems. No matter our situation, showing gratitude for our privileges is a unique, fast-acting, and long-lasting spiritual prescription. Simply stated, “In every thing give thanks” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).

Please consider accepting my invitation to flood social media for the next seven days with your own personal gratitude journal using #GiveThanks. And please join with me and others in thanking God through daily prayer. Prayers can bring forth miracles. May we all turn to God and more fully trust in Him.

Friday, November 20, 2020

#GiveThanks...


During this time defined by the current worldwide COVID-19 pandemic — as well as racism, violence, political tensions and a lack of civility — President Russell M. Nelson shared “a fast-acting, long-lasting spiritual remedy” with the world on Friday, November 20.

Following is the full text of President Nelson’s message:

During my 96 years of life, I have seen a great depression, a world war, the rise of terrorism, hunger and poverty throughout the world. I have also witnessed the advent of space travel, the Internet, medical advancements galore and countless other discoveries that delight me.

Prior to my ministry, I was a cardiovascular and thoracic surgeon, and spent many hours in operating rooms. As a surgical resident, I was one of the research team that developed the first heart-lung machine to be used in a human open-heart operation. Subsequently, I had the privilege of helping to save lives of hundreds of patients; and, sadly, I watched other patients die despite my best efforts.

As a man of science, and as a man of faith, the current worldwide pandemic has been of great concern to me. As a man of science, I appreciate the critical need to prevent the spread of infection. I also honor the devoted service of healthcare professionals and grieve for the many whose lives have been upended by COVID-19.

As a man of faith, however, I view the current pandemic as only one of many ills that plague our world, including hate, civil unrest, racism, violence, dishonesty and lack of civility.

Skilled scientists and researchers are laboring diligently to develop and distribute a vaccine against the coronavirus. But there is no medication or operation that can fix the many spiritual woes and maladies that we face.

There is, however, a remedy — one that may seem surprising — because it flies in the face of our natural intuitions. Nevertheless, its effects have been validated by scientists as well as men and women of faith.

I am referring to the healing power of gratitude.

The book of Psalms is filled with admonitions to express gratitude. Here are just three of them:

“It is a good thing to give thanks unto the Lord.” (Psalms 92:1)

“O give thanks unto the Lord; for he is good.” (Psalms 136:1)

“Come before his presence with thanksgiving.” (Psalms 95:2)

Jesus Christ frequently expressed gratitude. Before raising Lazarus from the dead, before miraculously multiplying loaves and fishes, and before passing the cup to His disciples at the Last Supper, the Savior prayed and gave thanks to God. No wonder the Apostle Paul later declared, “In everything give thanks.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)

Over my nine and a half decades of life, I have concluded that counting our blessings is far better than recounting our problems. No matter our situation, showing gratitude for our privileges is a fast-acting and long-lasting spiritual prescription.

Does gratitude spare us from sorrow, sadness, grief and pain? No, but it does soothe our feelings. It provides us with a greater perspective on the very purpose and joy of life.

Nearly 16 years ago, my wife Dantzel and I were sitting on the sofa holding hands while we watched television. Suddenly, she collapsed. Despite being well trained to treat the very thing that ended her life, I could not save my own wife.

Dantzel and I were blessed with nine daughters and one son. Tragically, I have lost two of those daughters to cancer. No parent is prepared to lose a child.

And yet, despite these and other difficult experiences, I am incredibly grateful, eternally, for so very many things.

I am grateful to God for the nearly 60 years Dantzel and I shared together, for a lifetime of love and joy and cherished memories. And I thank Him for my wife Wendy, whom I met after Dantzel’s passing. Wendy now fills my life with joy. 

I am grateful to God for the years I had with my two departed daughters. This father’s heart melts when I see attributes of those girls in the precious faces of their children and grandchildren.

We can all give thanks for the beauties of the earth and the majesty of the heavens that give us an inkling of the vastness of eternity.

We can give thanks for the gift of life, for our amazing bodies and minds, that allow us to grow and learn.

We can give thanks for art, literature and music that nurture our souls.

We can give thanks for the opportunity to repent, start over, make amends and build character.

We can give thanks for our families, friends and loved ones.

We can give thanks for the opportunity to help, cherish and serve one another, which makes life so much more meaningful.

We can even give thanks for our trials; from which we learn the things we would not know otherwise.

Most of all, we can give thanks unto God, the Father of our spirits, which makes us all brothers and sisters — one great global family.

No matter our situation, showing gratitude for our privileges is a fast-acting and long-lasting spiritual prescription.

As a doctor, I know the value of good therapy. So, dear friends, may I prescribe two activities to help us experience the healing power of gratitude.

First, I invite you — just for the next seven days — to turn social media into your own personal gratitude journal. Post every day about what you are grateful for, who you are grateful for and why you are grateful. 

At the end of seven days, see if you feel happier and more at peace. Use the hashtag #GiveThanks. Working together, we can flood social media with a wave of gratitude that reaches the four corners of the earth. Perhaps this will fulfill, in part, the promise God gave to Father Abraham, that through his descendants, “all families of the earth [shall] be blessed.” (Genesis 12:3)

Second, let us unite in thanking God through daily prayer. Jesus Christ taught His disciples to pray by first expressing gratitude to God, and then petitioning Him for the things we need. Prayer brings forth miracles.

In that spirit, I would now like to offer a prayer for the world and everyone in it. As I pray, I hope you will feel inspired to do the same, pouring out your heart in gratitude for the countless blessings God has given you, and petitioning Him to heal our hearts, our families, our societies and the world at large.

Our Father in Heaven, as fellow passengers on Thy planet Earth, we humbly pray unto Thee. We thank Thee for life and all that sustains life. We thank Thee for the beauties of the earth, for order in the universe, the planets, stars, and all things of eternal significance. We thank Thee for Thy laws that protect and guide us. We thank Thee for Thy mercy and loving watch care. We thank Thee for our families and loved ones, who fill our lives with joy.

We are grateful for all who are striving to combat the COVID pandemic. Please bless them with protection and inspiration. Wilt Thou help us end this virus that has plagued so many of Thy children.

We thank Thee for the leaders of nations and others who strive to lift us. We pray for relief from political strife. Wilt Thou bless us with a healing spirit that unites us despite our differences. 

Wilt Thou also help us repent from selfishness, unkindness, pride and prejudice of any kind, so that we can better serve and love one another as brothers and sisters, and as Thy grateful children. We love Thee, our dear Father, and pray for Thy blessings upon us, in the name of Thy Beloved son, Jesus Christ, amen.

Thursday, November 19, 2020

ThrowBack Thursday ~ What I would give...

Les, my friend and brother...




Monday, November 16, 2020

Fan the flame of your faith...


On one occasion Jesus came upon a group arguing vehemently with His disciples. When the Savior inquired as to the cause of this contention, the father of an afflicted child stepped forward, saying he had approached Jesus’s disciples for a blessing for his son, but they were not able to provide it. With the boy still gnashing his teeth, foaming from the mouth, and thrashing on the ground in front of them, the father appealed to Jesus with what must have been last-resort desperation in his voice:

“If thou canst do any thing,” he said, “have compassion on us, and help us.

“Jesus said unto him, If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth.

“And straightway the father of the child cried out, and said with tears, Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief (Mark 9:22–24).

”When problems come and questions arise, do not start your quest for faith by saying how much you do not have, leading as it were with your “unbelief.” That is like trying to stuff a turkey through the beak! Let me be clear on this point: I am not asking you to pretend to faith you do not have. I am asking you to be true to the faith you do have. Sometimes we act as if an honest declaration of doubt is a higher manifestation of moral courage than is an honest declaration of faith. It is not! So let us all remember the clear message of this scriptural account: Be as candid about your questions as you need to be; life is full of them on one subject or another. 

Honestly acknowledge your questions and your concerns, but first and forever fan the flame of your faith, because all things are possible to them that believe. 

“Lord, I Believe” | Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
April 2013

Sunday, November 15, 2020

Gloriously beautiful...

From our Gospel Doctrine Zoom lesson today:

His intent is that your life be gloriously beautiful regardless of your circumstances. As you are grateful and obedient, you can become all that God intends you to be.


Children teach us how to find joy even under the most challenging circumstances. Children haven’t yet learned to be depressed by concentrating on the things they don’t have. They find joy in what is available to them. (Grey does this, since he was small he has found joy in what is available to him, usually it something small enough to hold in his hands).

Adam fell that men might be; and men are, that they might have joy. ~ 2 Nephi 2:25

Finding Joy in Life | Richard G. Scott
April 1996

Wednesday, November 11, 2020

Birthday love...


Today I woke up feeling so grateful for my life. I have now lived for 63 years. I have some regrets but I have also learned a lot too. I felt a lot of birthday love today from family and friends... texts, phone calls, birthday lunch with Billie, cards, gifts, and birthday wishes on Facebook. Susan and Cindy came by. The best gift I could ever hope for on my birthday is to be with my family. I was grateful to talk to Chris this morning, I miss him. Thanks to Tim for the card, flowers, and Gandolfo's sandwich

I looked forward all day to having birthday dinner with Mark, Tiffani, Cash, Colby, Grey, and Grahm. Mark and Tiffani made a delicious chopped salad. 



Tiff made chocolate chops cookies that melt in your mouth. I loved hearing everyone sing Happy Birthday and getting lots of hugs from the Grands. Sweet Colby had a little cold but we got to see him for a minute. I really love my family. Thanks so much Mark and Tiffani!





All the birthday wishes mean a lot to me and these are a few that really touched my heart. 

From my nephew Jimmy
This young lady is one of the absolutely best of the best angels God sent to this world! She is an amazing mother, grandmother, sister, wife, daughter, you name it she the best, the biggest heart, the kindest soul, would do anything for anyone! A true roll model, She has always been a very important person in my life to me! I am very thankful for her! I don't know what I would ever do without her! And I'm very proud to be able to call her my friend and my Aunt! HAPPY 23rd BIRTHDAY! I miss you and I love ya always!

My coworkers response to Jimmy's post

Mallory Rachelle Kleinman
Truest words I’ve ever heard. Happy Birthday cute lady. Your Lincoln ladies (and gents) sure love you

Candice Behunin Tesch
Eileen certainly is an angel among us. It is my unique honor to know and love her.

From my nephew Theo
Happy birthday aunt Eileen, thank you for being the pillar for our family and for always being there. I hope your day is as special as you are.

From my nephew Brad
Happy Birthday, Eileen! You are on my list as one of the kindest, most sincere loving humans I've ever met. I hope this year brings you joy and happiness!

From our next door neighbor Sheila
Happy Birthday Eileen. It is great to know that there is such a positive thinking, bright, intelligent, good person living in the house next door. Actually there are two of you, but it isn't Tim's birthday today. What a super grandmother you are. Makes me feel guilty. The weather isn't so great, but I bet the sun is shining where you are. Thank you for your great attitude on life.

Birthday love!

Monday, November 9, 2020

Missing the "normal"

Lately I find myself daydreaming about 2019 and all that we took for granted. I wish I could back and spend one normal day hugging my friends and crew without thinking twice. I wish Helen could play in a park and make new friends and lick the leftover Halloween Dum Dum stickiness from her fingers without the constant low grade worry about the last time she washed her hands. I wish my grandmother was still here. I wish I never worried when the people I love had a sniffle or sneeze, especially our parents. I miss John Prine and the thrill of visits to New York City on airplanes. I miss our church feeling alive, and busy, and the safety of Sunday School classrooms. It all felt temporary for so many months, but it's beginning to feel like part of me now, this think I'm carrying that's too heavy. I just miss the normal and am feeling the grief in it lately. But I know y'all do too. And I guess there's some comfort in that.

~ Erin Napier 

Friday, November 6, 2020

Thankful Turkeys...









Giving thanks