Monday, August 21, 2017
If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed.
Every morning in basic SEAL training, my instructors, who at the time were all Viet Nam veterans, would show up in my barracks room and the first thing they would inspect was your bed.
If you did it right, the corners would be square, the covers pulled tight, the pillow centered just under the headboard and the extra blanket folded neatly at the foot of the rack—rack—that’s Navy talk for bed.
It was a simple task–mundane at best. But every morning we were required to make our bed to perfection. It seemed a little ridiculous at the time, particularly in light of the fact that were aspiring to be real warriors, tough battle hardened SEALs–but the wisdom of this simple act has been proven to me many times over.
If you make your bed every morning you will have accomplished the first task of the day. It will give you a small sense of pride and it will encourage you to do another task and another and another.
By the end of the day, that one task completed will have turned into many tasks completed. Making your bed will also reinforce the fact that little things in life matter.
If you can’t do the little things right, you will never do the big things right.
And, if by chance you have a miserable day, you will come home to a bed that is made—that you made—and a made bed gives you encouragement that tomorrow will be better.
If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed.
(University of Texas at Austin 2014 Commencement Address – Admiral William H. McRaven)
Thursday, August 17, 2017
Wednesday, August 16, 2017
Monday, August 14, 2017
No goodbyes, always in our hearts...
"There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in our hearts." ~Mahatma Ghandi
It was a month ago today that Mary Kay passed away. I still have a difficult time believing she is gone. I talked to Jimmy yesterday and he misses his Mom. He wants so much to be able to talk to her. He told me he wishes she would answer the phone. It's hard for him to put into words the sadness he feels. It breaks my heart. The autopsy report was inconclusive, so we will never really know why Mary Kay died so suddenly. That was also difficult for Jimmy, somehow it would have helped to know what happened. Mary Kay will always be in our hearts. But the day to day living without her is weighing heavily on her children, and really all those who loved her.
Sunday, August 13, 2017
Mark's birthday and Grahm's first visit...
Sunday we celebrated Mark's birthday, and Grahm's first visit to Grandpa and Grandma's house!
We had a good time making balloon animals. Mommy's creation was the best. Little Bunny Foo Foo, that darling face melts my heart!
Ice cream in bag!
Gifts for Daddy...
Beautiful baby, it was wonderful to hold him.
We had a good time making balloon animals. Mommy's creation was the best. Little Bunny Foo Foo, that darling face melts my heart!
Happy Birthday Mark, and come back soon Grahm!
Friday, August 11, 2017
Last day of our summer fun...

Colby and Grey singing, "We are the wiener dogs, stomping our feet and waging our tails..." Cash was under the table singing! I love to hear them sing songs.
Well, I took the boys home today. I doubt I will ever have this many days in a row with them for awhile. Although I would do it again in a minute! Nothing makes me happier than helping my family, and spending time with them. Cash, Colby, and Grey have been so well behaved the last week. Tiffani is feeling better, and Grahm has lots of love from his brothers. They like to hold him. Grey finally held him today, and it was a sweet moment.
Tim and I will be gone for a few days to Seattle, we will help Chris pack up, and move back to Utah. He's not sure where he will be living, so he will be renting for awhile. He has the travel bug. School starts in a week, so for now our summer fun days are over. We will still have some after school fun I hope. I am all in when it comes to my family. I feel blessed, and love them all so much.
I had a few tears today, because I will miss the boys. Sometimes Grey will say "did you lost me" which means did you miss me. And then he will say, "I will come back."
Thanks again to Mark and Tiff for sharing Cash, Colby,
and Grey with us. Soon enough I will be able to spend more time with
Grahm Ivan! Can't wait.
Summer always goes by way too fast...
Fat Cats, Forts, and Fun...
For some reasons I thought it might be fun to take the boys to Fat Cats on Thursday. I really don't know why I thought of taking them there! They had a few games, but it's mostly know for the bowling alley. It was still fun.
We went to the Alpine Days petting zoo, and saw a real baby camel. There were other animals that the boys got to pet. It got crowded real fast so we decided it was time to go have some dinner.
The boys made cool forts with a fire and everything!
Cash is in there somewhere!
Tex Rex made from Plus Plus, Cash made this with zero help!
We went to the Alpine Days petting zoo, and saw a real baby camel. There were other animals that the boys got to pet. It got crowded real fast so we decided it was time to go have some dinner.
Colby was so gentle with all the animals.
Thursday, August 10, 2017
Field trip...
I have been telling Cash, Colby, and Grey that our outings are field trips. Colby doesn't buy it, because he associates field trips with school. Nevertheless, our "field trips" this week have been delightful. So Wednesday we went back to the park in Alpine, and saw a few of the artists working on their chalk paintings for Chalk the Block. It was pretty amazing. We had planned on going back in the evening but it was rained out.
I have been wanting to take the boys to the Alpine Art Center. There are several antique pieces of farm equipment. Cash especially liked looking at them. He could read the plaques that told what they were. I was impressed! Most of the equipment was over a hundred years old. I enjoyed telling them how they worked. My Grandpa Federer actually had some very similar equipment.
I have been wanting to take the boys to the Alpine Art Center. There are several antique pieces of farm equipment. Cash especially liked looking at them. He could read the plaques that told what they were. I was impressed! Most of the equipment was over a hundred years old. I enjoyed telling them how they worked. My Grandpa Federer actually had some very similar equipment.
Big wheel!
I loved watching the boys run around looking at all the awesome sculptures. Cash took most of these pictures!
I love this picture so much. Grey was a little unsure at first but that didn't last long.

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