"What is our response when we are offended, misunderstood, unfairly or unkindly treated, or sinned against, made an offender for a word, falsely accused, passed over, hurt by those we love, our offerings rejected? Do we resent, become bitter, hold a grudge? Or do we resolve the problem if we can, forgive, and rid ourselves of the burden? The nature of our response to such situations may well determine the nature and quality of our lives, here and eternally. A courageous friend, her faith refined by many afflictions, said to me only hours ago, "Humiliation must come before exaltation." It is required of us to forgive. Our salvation depends upon it."
--Marion D. Hanks, "Forgiveness The Ultimate Form of Love", Ensign January 1974
"We have a choice. We can seek for the bad in others. Or we can make peace and work to extend to others the understanding, fairness, and forgiveness we so desperately desire for ourselves. It is our choice; for whatever we seek, that we will certainly find."
--Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Looking for the Good", Ensign, March 2011
Monday, March 4, 2019
Sunday, March 3, 2019
Lee's adventures...
Yesterday Tim got a call from his brother Lee and he was at the hospital in American Fork. Early in the day Lee had gone to the gym and he wasn't feeling well. He was having chest pain. He went home but the pain was getting worse. He went to the ER, the doctor quickly determined he needed to go to the hospital in Provo. He was transported by ambulance. Lee had an artery that was completely block. They doctor put in a stent, and Lee experience V-tach, a very fast heart rate. They had to shock Lee's heart three times to control the abnormal heart rate. He is still in ICU where they are monitoring his heart rhythm and blood pressure. He was able to take a walk around the floor today and he looks good. Long story short, Lee is very lucky that he did not wait much longer to get medical treatment. Hopefully he will be home in a few days. We love you Lee and are praying for you.
Thursday, February 28, 2019
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
Monday, February 25, 2019
Heaven...
Heaven is a place, but also a condition; it is home and family. It is understanding and kindness. It is interdependence and selfless activity. It is quiet, sane living; personal sacrifice, genuine hospitality, wholesome concern for others. It is living the commandments of God without ostentation or hypocrisy. It is selflessness. It is all about us. We need only to be able to recognize it as we find it and enjoy it.
October 1971 | Glimpses of Heaven Spencer W. Kimball
Friday, February 22, 2019
Best day at school...
I've have been a substitute teacher many times the last six years but yesterday was the most rewarding day I've ever had. This past week I've subbed for the health teacher. (His wife had a healthy baby girl so he took the week off.)
Leading up to yesterday, the lesson plans included a discussion and worksheet on different kinds of mental illness. I was surprised how much the students knew about mental illness. I gave them a chance to talk about the ones they were familiar with. Unfortunately I didn't know that a new student in the class suffers from depression and has suicidal thoughts. Alana came up to me while they were filling out a worksheet and told me she was having a hard time. I asked what was going on, and she told about the depression and suicidal thoughts. I felt terrible and sent her to talk to the counselor. She came back soon after and seemed fine. I later found out she has an IEP (Individualized Education Program (IEP) is a plan that can help students with learning disabilities and other challenges succeed in school). The IEP specifically stated not to have Alana in the classroom if there were discussions related to depression.
Sweet, tiny baby Madilyn
The second part of the lesson plans included learning about celebrities that had challenges in their life, how they overcame them, and something that can be learned from their experiences. We finished all that so the next class period I had nothing for them to do. I came up with my own follow up plan! I asked them to write down three people they admire then choose one person, and write three qualities that they admire in that person. Then I asked them to underline the qualities they think they already have and circle the qualities that they would like to develop to a greater degree. When they finished I asked if anyone wanted to share who they admired and why. This is the part that made it the best day at school. I was overwhelmed with the responses, some of them brought tears to my eyes. The responses included moms, dads, brothers, sisters, grandmas, grandpas, friends, and even a favorite cousin. They shared many great qualities about each one. The
girl who has depression said she admires her mom the most. She said her
mom also suffers from depression but she works hard to take care of the
family. She said she knows how much her mom loves her. Another girl said she also admires her mom. Her dad died a few years ago from lung cancer. She said her mom takes care of everything, and is positive. She has also gone back to school. I could feel how much she loves her mom.
Then several students shared the quality they wanted to develop, the most common quality was patience. One student said he wanted to be funny. He made sure everyone knew that didn't mean to make fun of others, but to make others laugh and spread joy! One boy named Owen is autistic or has ADHD, I can't remember. He said he wanted to be stable and in control of his emotions. I thought it was admirable that he shared what he was feeling to a group of his peers. Thankfully everyone was respectful.
This is the worksheet that I came up with. I have said before that I don't want to be a teacher, but I know I could have been. I'm a good substitute teacher and that's enough.
Name_____________________________________________Date________________Period_______
STEP 1: Write down three people you admire and respect (not a famous person) but a family member, friend, or teacher.
1. __________________________________________________________________________
2. __________________________________________________________________________
3. __________________________________________________________________________
STEP 2: Write three characteristics or qualities you like most about that person. (Use the list of possible qualities to inspire ideas)
1. __________________________________________________________________________
2. __________________________________________________________________________
3. __________________________________________________________________________
STEP 3: From the quality list, underline the qualities you feel you already have. Then circle the qualities you would like to develop to a greater degree.
STEP 4: Choose one quality you would like to develop, and write down one small action, or step you could take to develop that quality more in yourself.
1. Quality__________________________________________________________________
2. One small step__________________________________________________________
Who Do you Admire?
STEP 1: Write down three people you admire and respect (not a famous person) but a family member, friend, or teacher.
1. __________________________________________________________________________
2. __________________________________________________________________________
3. __________________________________________________________________________
STEP 2: Write three characteristics or qualities you like most about that person. (Use the list of possible qualities to inspire ideas)
1. __________________________________________________________________________
2. __________________________________________________________________________
3. __________________________________________________________________________
STEP 3: From the quality list, underline the qualities you feel you already have. Then circle the qualities you would like to develop to a greater degree.
STEP 4: Choose one quality you would like to develop, and write down one small action, or step you could take to develop that quality more in yourself.
1. Quality__________________________________________________________________
2. One small step__________________________________________________________
Good Qualities
honest
daring
powerful
inspiring
intelligent
insightful
creative
incredibly funny
smart
athletic
dynamic
adventurous
analytical
imaginative
classy
optimistic
charming
assertive
passionate
fun
hardworking
compassionate
kind
generous
practical
motivating
integrity
reliable
innovative
brave
insightful
poetic
seriously tough
intuitive
questioning
energetic leader
sympathetic
protective
sensitive
trusting
independent
courteous
thoughtful
skilled
adaptable spirit
devoted
competitive
patient
driven
persistent
daring
powerful
inspiring
intelligent
insightful
creative
incredibly funny
smart
athletic
dynamic
adventurous
analytical
imaginative
classy
optimistic
charming
assertive
passionate
fun
hardworking
compassionate
kind
generous
practical
motivating
integrity
reliable
innovative
brave
insightful
poetic
seriously tough
intuitive
questioning
energetic leader
sympathetic
protective
sensitive
trusting
independent
courteous
thoughtful
skilled
adaptable spirit
devoted
competitive
patient
driven
persistent
talented
calm
stable
courageous
confident
loving
calm
stable
courageous
confident
loving
friendly
Thursday, February 21, 2019
Wednesday, February 20, 2019
Tuesday, February 19, 2019
Monday, February 18, 2019
I know everything I need to know to stand forever...
The prophet Daniel said that in the last days
shall the God of heaven set up a kingdom, which shall never be destroyed: and the kingdom shall not be left to other people, but it shall break in pieces and consume all these kingdoms, and it shall stand for ever. (Daniel 2:44)
The kingdom of God is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It will “stand for ever.”
The question is, Will you and I stand? Will you stand forever, or will you go away? And if you go, where will you go?
When the Lord described the signs of His coming and the end of the world, when He described our day, He mentioned many things, including wars and rumors of wars, nations rising against nations, famines, pestilences, earthquakes, and many other signs, including this one:
For in those days [this day] there shall also arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall show great signs and wonders, insomuch, that, if possible, they shall deceive the very elect, who are the elect according to the covenant. (JS—Matthew 1:22; see also Matthew 24:24)
I am not sure of all that is implied by the qualification “if possible, they shall deceive the very elect,” but I think it means, at least, that everyone will be challenged in our day.
Never has there been more information, misinformation, and disinformation; more goods, gadgets, and games; and more options, places to go, and things to see and do to occupy time and attention away from what is most important. And all of that and much more is disseminated instantaneously throughout the world by electronic media. This is a day of deception.
How do we avoid deception?
Begin by answering the primary questions. There are primary questions and there are secondary questions. Answer the primary questions first. Not all questions are equal and not all truths are equal. The primary questions are the most important. Everything else is subordinate. There are only a few primary questions.
1. Is there a God who is our Father?
2. Is Jesus Christ the Son of God, the Savior of the world?
3. Was Joseph Smith a prophet?
4. Is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints the kingdom of God on the earth?
By contrast, the secondary questions are unending. They include questions about Church history, polygamy, people of African descent and the priesthood, women and the priesthood, how the Book of Mormon was translated, the Pearl of Great Price, DNA and the Book of Mormon, gay marriage, the different accounts of the First Vision, and on and on.
If you answer the primary questions, the secondary questions get answered too, or they pale in significance and you can deal with things you understand and things you don’t and things you agree with and things you don’t without jumping ship altogether.
Ultimately the things of God are made known by the Spirit of God, which is usually a still, small voice. The Lord said, “God shall give unto you knowledge by his Holy Spirit, yea, by the unspeakable gift of the Holy Ghost.” (D&C 121:26)
Pay whatever price you must pay, bear whatever burden you must bear, and make whatever sacrifice you must make to get and keep in your life the spirit and power of the Holy Ghost. Every good thing depends on getting and keeping the power of the Holy Ghost in your life. Everything depends on that.
Answers to the primary questions do not come by answering the secondary questions. There are answers to the secondary questions, but you cannot prove a positive by disproving every negative. You cannot prove the Church is true by disproving every claim made against it. That will never work. It is a flawed strategy. Ultimately there has to be affirmative proof, and with the things of God, affirmative proof finally and surely comes by revelation through the spirit and power of the Holy Ghost.
How can you believe in extraordinary things such as angels and gold plates and your divine potential? Easy, just look around and believe.
I don’t know if pigs will ever sprout wings and fly, but if they do, flying pigs will never be nearly as amazing as the ordinary pig in the first place.
Doubts and Questions
I heard someone say recently, “It is okay to have doubts.”
I wonder about that. The Lord said, “Look unto me in every thought; doubt not, fear not.” (D&C 6:36) I have a lot of questions; I don’t have any doubts.
Conclusion
There is a God in heaven who is our Eternal Father. I know this by my experience—all of my experience. I know this by the evidence, and the evidence is overwhelming. I know it by study, and, most surely, I know it by the spirit and power of the Holy Ghost.
Jesus Christ is the Son of God, the Redeemer of the world. I know this by my experience—all of it. I know this by the evidence, and the evidence is overwhelming. I know it by study, and, most surely, I know it by the spirit and power of the Holy Ghost.
Joseph Smith was a prophet of God who laid the foundation for the restoration of the kingdom of God. I know this by my experience—all of my experience. I know this by the evidence, and the evidence is overwhelming. I know it by study, and, most surely, I know it by the spirit and power of the Holy Ghost.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the kingdom of God on the earth. I know this by my experience—all of it. I know this by the evidence, and the evidence is overwhelming. I know it by study, and, most surely, I know it by the Spirit and power of the Holy Ghost.
And with that I know everything I need to know to stand forever.
May we stand on the rock of revelation, particularly in regard to the primary questions. If we do, we will stand forever and never go away.
Stand Forever Lawrence Corbridge of the Seventy January 22, 2019 • Devotional
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