Saturday, August 30, 2025

Euphonium and more...


Colby walked over to our house after school on Friday with his euphonium! He was excited to show it to us. I like brass instruments and the euphonium has a great sound. I think it's wonderful that Colby is trying new things like band. I know he has some musical talent! 

euphonium
musical instrument
Also known as: baryton
euphonium, brass wind instrument with valves, pitched in C or B♭ an octave below the trumpet; it is the leading instrument in the tenor-bass range in military bands. It was invented in 1843 by Sommer of Weimar and derived from the valved bugle (flügelhorn) and cornet. It has a wide conical bore resembling that of the tuba and is held vertically with the bell upward (in the United States the bell is often positioned to face forward on the instrument).


Colbs let Grahm give it a try!


Gramps and Chris both play the trumpet so we need to keep the brass instrument tradition going! 

I found some stuffies, actually called warmies that you can warm up in the microwave. They were so cute I couldn't resist. Grahm really likes his dinosaur, he named it Lavee because it smells like lavender. He would style that little bit of hair and say, "this is a teenager, or grandpa, or a baby." It was so cute.

We were playing Bocce ball and Grahm carefully put Lavee in the game bag to protect him.


Grahm got some library books from school that are right up his alley. He's always interested in what animal would win in a fight. He had two books called "Who Would Win?" Grandpa and Grahm took turns reading them. We are still so grateful he will sit on our laps!



It's not everyday you see a sloth on Colby's head! I didn't get a picture but Grey's warmie is a turtle.


I love gathering around the table with the Grands for a meal. We have good conversations and lots of laughs. Grahm often ask me to make lasagna so I did.





The weather is still very nice so we can enjoy playing outside for a little while longer. Grey can really do a mean hula!



All of our grandsons are very handsome and growing up so fast!



We had fun making some things out of clay. Grahm made a toilet and gave it a good smash! Grey carved something he called a button creature. It was very good, lots of detail. I made Olaf.






We like it when Mark comes to pick 
up the boys and stays for a bit.

 
Hurry back my wonderful grandsons!

Friday, August 29, 2025

Filipino friends...


We had a lovely evening last week with Christopher's business partners JP, Mark, and Mark's daughter. They are humble and happy people. Mark told us that he stays positive no matter what and never gives up on his goals and dreams. They wanted steak so Chris grilled some up with twice baked potatoes on the side. They seems to really enjoy the meal. 

Mark played the piano and JP played some songs on the guitar that Tim made. JP is in band and it was fun to hear them play, they are both talented musicians. What a treat to have them in our home.

Chris spent the week in meetings with them and also showing them around our beautiful state. They went to Temple Square and even found a Filipino missionary serving in Salt Lake. 



Thursday, August 28, 2025

ThrowBack Thursday ~ Sunset on the Serengeti...

Christopher had a once in a lifetime experience in Africa. 

Monday, August 25, 2025

The Light We Leave On...

I was asked to give a talk at church a few weeks ago. It was a tender experience to study and prepare the talk. I know I had Heavenly help and for that I am so grateful. So in case you missed it... 

Of course reading it won't be the same as hearing me deliver it, but it does have some inspiring quotes and personal stories.

The Light We Leave On

Good morning, Brothers and Sisters,
(Brief introduction)

Advice from my son (Christopher) – share a few “P’s” and a “Q” or a few “Q’s” and a “P”

I was asked to share a message from Doctrine & Covenants 88, also known as the "Olive Leaf."

Section 88 is an inspiring revelation on the Light of Christ. It’s a guidebook for understanding God’s power. It’s a revelation that can be read over and over, and each time something more can be learned. It’s an introduction to the School of the Prophets, which was the precursor to the temple. This section is a glorious promise of light, power, and joy after the depressing and frightening section on war just received. It contains two revelations that were received over multiple days. It instructs the Kirtland saints to form a School of the Prophets, and learn of God together.

This section extensively explores the Light of Christ, emphasizing its role as the source of all truth, life, and the governing principle of the universe. The word "light" appears 17 times in this section. And I might add in total the word “light “ appears 535 times in the scriptures.

As a child, I was afraid of the dark. I lived on ranch with no streetlights, no glow from nearby buildings—no light pollution at all. When night fell, it fell completely. It was the kind of darkness where you couldn’t see your hand in front of your face.

When the lights were turned off inside the house, my imagination would take over, and every creak or shadow became something to fear. Of course, pulling the covers over my head helped a little! Even the glow from a small nightlight would calm my fears.

How I loved to look out the window and a see a brilliant starlit sky. Millions of them placed there by Heavenly Father. There are a very few places you can go these days to see that kind of sky.

Sometimes when our parents went away for the evening we would turn on every light in the house! There was one thing that could always get my Dad worked up (and he was so patient)—coming home at night and finding that all the lights in the house were left on. (Is that still a thing, Dads?)


My siblings and I would hear him drive up and scramble to flip the switches before he got inside the house. With seven children to provide for, saving a few pennies on the power bill was always on his mind. I have come to realize that I may never fully outgrow my fear of the dark…

As adults we face different kinds of darkness:
-- uncertainty
-- loss and grief
-- loneliness
-- sin
-- financial insecurity
-- or simply the unknown

But Jesus declared, “I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life. (John 8:12)

As I mentioned earlier, Section 88 of the Doctrine and Covenants is filled with many references about light.

In verses 6-13, the Lord teaches about the Light of Christ.

Verse 11.. And the light which shineth, which giveth you light, is through him who enlighteneth your eyes, which is the same light that quickeneth your understandings;

I love this verse because it reminds me that Heavenly Father is not distant. We are always surrounded by reminders of the Light of Christ.

His light is all around us—in the beauty of the earth, sunlight breaking through the clouds, even the glow of a campfire, in quiet thoughts, and in the whisperings of the Spirit.

Elder Hales taught: When light is present, darkness is vanquished and must depart… When the spiritual light of the Holy Ghost is present, the darkness of Satan departs. (“Out of Darkness into his Marvelous Light,” Ensign, May 2002)

When my sons were young I taught them a song written by Janice Kapp Perry called “My Own Little Lamp.” I have a recording of my son Mark singing that song that I cherish.

“I need to have my own testimony to be sure that the gospel is true
It’s a blessing to have parents who are certain of the of the truth
But I need to know it too
I need to have my own testimony to be able to stand for the right
I know there may come a time when I will have to walk alone and I can’t live on borrowed light
I must ask the Lord
I must make a choice to listen to His gentle voice
And then I will know that these things are right
And my own little lamp will be filled with light”

Elder Heber C. Kimball shared this counsel in 1868 and it has been repeated by modern day prophets:

The time will come when no man nor woman will be able to endure on borrowed light. Each will have to be guided by the light within himself. [Orson F. Whitney, Life of Heber C. Kimball (Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1967), pp. 446, 449, 450]

I certainly agree that we cannot live on borrowed light alone. Like my young sons, we may have relied on borrowed light. And throughout my life I know I have occasionally still needed that borrowed light. I also know that borrowed light can expire.

Doctrine and Covenants 46:13-14 says;
To others it is given to believe on their words, that they also might have eternal life if they continue faithful.”

The spiritual gift “to believe on their words” can be like borrowing a flame to light a spiritual fire, to ignite our own testimonies. There is no need to return the flame; no one comes asking for it. We just need to have oil in our own lamp and keep fueling the fire.

President Thomas S. Monson pointed out, “If you want to give a light to others, you have to glow yourself.” How can we keep that light of truth glowing within us? Sometimes I feel like a dim lightbulb. How do we grow brighter? (Thomas S. Monson, “For I Was Blind, but Now See,” Ensign, May 1999)

Just as the sun daily covers the earth and sustains life, we can daily brighten the light within us when we choose to follow Jesus Christ.

A drop of sunshine is added every time we seek God in prayer, study the scriptures, act on guidance and revelation from our living prophets, obey and keep the commandments, and attend the temple. His light is enhanced with forgiveness and every time we serve one another as the Savior did.

There is sunshine in your soul every time you share the gospel and bear your testimony.

It’s been many years since someone shared the gospel with me.

Doctrine & Covenants 88:46 has always had special meaning for me.
“And the Spirit giveth light to every man that cometh into the world; and the Spirit enlighteneth every man through the world, that hearkeneth to the voice of the Spirit.”

What a beautiful promise: “The Spirit giveth light to every man” (and woman)… how grateful I am for the Light of Christ, that spiritual influence that inspired and enlighten me, guiding me toward the truth.

I didn’t get there alone. Along the way there were people who were quietly and faithfully sharing the light of Christ. I’m so grateful for my sister, who introduced me to the gospel. I’m grateful for the missionaries who answered the call to serve for two years. For my friends Richard and Judy, they took me under their wing and never gave up on me. And for many other kind and caring members of the ward, including my future in-laws. I have had such a wonderful life since that day.

As Jesus Christ becomes the focus of our lives, what we desire, and how we desire it, is forever altered. Conversion changes everything! It changes our nature “that we have no more disposition to do evil, but to do good continually.” It changes how we spend our time, our resources; what we read, watch, listen to, and share.

We need to infuse the Light of Jesus Christ into every corner of our lives.

(Alma 9:16 – Now, this was what Ammon desired, for he knew that king Lamoni was under the power of God; he knew that the dark veil of unbelief was being cast away from his mind, and the light which did light up his mind, which was the light of the glory of God,
which was a marvelous light of his goodness—yea, this light had infused such joy into his soul, …)
Thou Art the Christ (Matthew 16:16) | Sister Wright | April 2025

With permission I want to share an experience my aunt and uncle had with feeling the light of Christ. They had a week off from work and thought they might drive somewhere and do some camping. A friend suggested they visit Utah, it would be a relatively short drive from California and there would be plenty of beautiful areas to camp. On the way to Salt Lake they stopped to get gas and my uncle saw a brochure about Temple Square. They stopped and walked around admiring the flowers, and the beauty of the temple. They felt something they hadn’t felt before. The missionaries saw them and answered a few questions. Then they decided to walk around the grounds one more time. The missionaries saw them again and suggested they walk around the for a third time! That experience touched them so deeply that they wanted to know more. The missionaries explained how they could contact missionaries in their hometown.

My aunt and uncle spent the week reading the Book of Mormon and being taught by the missionaries. They told them they wanted to be baptized. The missionaries were stunned but grateful, and just a week after my aunt and uncle returned home from Salt Lake City, they were baptized. It the shadow of the temple and around Temple Square the light of Christ was opening their hearts, helping them recognize truth, and it change their lives. My uncle has passed and Aunt Kay is 85 years old now. Her life has not always been easy but she has been a faithful member of the Church. She’s an inspiration to me and has shared her light with countless others. I talked to her last week and she ended our conversation with her testimony.

She expressed gratitude for the Gospel and said she would not have been able to endure her trials without it. Aunt Kay said her trials were “stepping stones” to miracles.

I would like to share a few thoughts I have had with the youth and Primary children too. When you walked into your school last week you might not have been carrying a flashlight or wearing a glowing shirt—but you can still shine. I work at a school and I know firsthand what a difference you can make by letting the light of Christ shine through you.

The Savior taught that we are the light of world—not because we are perfect, but because we carry His light in us. And school is one of the best places to let that shine. (Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Matthew 5:14)

Share your light with a smile, something as simple as a kind face.
Speak Kindly. Words carry light or darkness. Let yours lift others.
Include the Lonely. The Savior cared about the “one.”
Be Honest. Be Brave. Choosing what’s right even when it’s hard is a powerful light.
Pray for Guidance. Ask Heavenly Father each day, “Who needs MY light today?—and watch what happens.

Let your light so shine… (Matthew 5:16 “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.”)

You might be the only light someone sees that day. Don’t hide it. Choose to shine a little brighter.

I love this sweet Primary song:
“Shine On”
My light is but a little one,
My light of faith and prayer;
But lo! it glows like God’s great sun,
For it was lighted there.
I may not hide my little light;
The Lord has told me so.
’Tis given me to keep in sight,
That all may see it glow.
Shine on, shine on, shine on bright and clear;
Shine on, shine on now the day is here.
(Children’s Songbook, 144)

Shine on!

Doctrine & Covenants 88:13 says, “The light which is in all things... giveth life to all things”

In the words of Elder Holland:
“My declaration is that this is precisely what the gospel of Jesus Christ offers us, especially in times of need...There really is light at the end of the tunnel. It is the Light of the World, the Bright and Morning Star, the "light that is endless, that can never be darkened." It is the very Son of God Himself. In loving praise far beyond Romeo's reach, we say, "What light through yonder window breaks?" It is the return of hope, and Jesus is the Sun. To any who may be struggling to see that light and find that hope, 
I say: Hold on. Keep trying. God loves you. Things will improve.” ("An High Priest of Good Things to Come," Ensign, Nov. 1999)

I still smile when I think of Dad and those lights we left on in my childhood home. I became more respectful and made sure I flipped off the switch when not in a room. But the light of Christ is always on. It doesn’t flicker. It doesn’t burn out. It’s the Light we want to leave on. It’s a constant gift—meant to guide us, warm us, and help us see.

His light will lead us safely home. I’m grateful for my Savior. He is our light… His light will never dim. His love for us is eternal.

In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Eileen Federer Williams
August 17, 2025

Friday, August 22, 2025

Growing...



Cash was a good sport and let me take a few pictures the other day. We absolutely love it when he comes over after school. Grandpa takes him to lift weights and will enjoy that for probably another year or until he has his drivers license. 


Growing taller, stronger, more handsome,
and yes more amazing every year!

Thursday, August 21, 2025

ThrowBack Thursday ~ Grandma Federer...

I cherish this picture of Grandma holding Mark. It was less than one year later that she passed. I miss her still.

Wednesday, August 20, 2025

First day...

Summer seems to always go by way too fast but back to school they go. Lots of prayers that this will be a great year for Cash, Colby, Grey, and Grahm.




Bus stop for Colbs...



Thanks for the pictures Tiffani!

Tuesday, August 19, 2025

New chapter for Colby...


Several times this summer I had a prompting to spend some time with Colby before he started a new chapter in his life. He told me a few times he was a bit apprehensive about starting junior high. I told him about my experience and it wasn't all that good. I went from a small two room country school to a large junior high in town. I was shy and did not feel prepared at all. He's leaps and bounds ahead of me when I was his age. He has more confidence and so much support and love. Colbs also has several good friends that he can count on. I gave Colby my best heartfelt advice. He told me he likes junior high and I know he will be just fine. Of course school is school and there will be some hard days. I feel he can shake them off easily. 



I gave Colby a lantern to remind him of this quote:

How Can You Walk Undaunted Toward Him?

Imagine that you are an explorer in uncharted territory. To overcome the obstacles ahead, you need a source of light. Your faithfulness to God and your constant interactions with Him are the fuel for your lantern. So when you encounter dark and perilous situations, instead of walking toward them blindly, you will turn on your lamp filled with the oil of faith in Christ to shed glimmers of hope on the uncertain path. Your past experiences will increase your hope that the Lord will sustain you on your journey.

Faith: A Bond of Trust and Loyalty | Elder Sandino Roman
April 2025



We had the best day together, better than I had hoped. We had lunch and did a little school shopping. We stopped at Harmon's and sat upstairs and talked. We both had tears and I will never forget that day. I know most of all, Colby could feel how much I love him. 

August 4, 2025

Dear Colby,

As you take this next big step into junior high, my heart is full. It’s hard to believe how quickly time has passed. I remember holding you for the first time, praying you would be safe and have a good life. But here you are, growing up into an amazing young man. You are strong, thoughtful, and capable.

Junior high is a new chapter, full of opportunities to learn and grow. There will be days that feel exciting, and others that feel uncertain, But I want you to remember this—you are never alone. You can pray and feel Heavenly Father’s love in the hallways, classrooms, and in every challenge. Remember to pray every day!

This is one of my favorite Bible verses:

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths." --Proverbs 3:5-6

These verses are a reminder that when life feels new or a little overwhelming, you can trust Heavenly Father (and the Savior) completely. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You can trust Him to help you make good choices and lead you in the right direction. You can also listen for the whisperings of the Holy Spirt.

Keep your eyes on what is good and true. Continue to be kind, even when it’s not easy. Stand up for what is right, even if you may have to stand alone. Let your light shine because the world needs the kind of light that’s in you.

You can always say a silent prayer when you feel nervous. Give thanks when things go well. And hey, don’t forget to have fun.

You can always walk over to our house after school. Grandpa and I would love that.

I will praying for you and cheering you on every step of the way. I’m just a call or a hug away. I’m so proud of you. I could not be more grateful to be your Grandma!

You’ve got this!
I love you with all my heart,
Grandma


From a precious bundle to junior high in the blink of an eye...